For most of my life, I struggled with my interpersonal relationships. Why? Because I didn't know myself. This led to:
*Staying too long in unhealthy relationships.
*Playing down my strengths, in order to make others feel comfortable.
*Avoiding conflict at any cost.
*Draining my energy
*Making me ill
Therefore keeping me from fully knowing and expressing my best possible self and sharing my gifts and talents.
By playing small, I experienced one painful life experience after another. Each time leaving someone else or something else to blame for my lack of fulfillfment. If only I could catch a break, If only I was in a better relationship, if only I had more money, a better body, could make my dreams come true...THEN I could have the lfie I desired and the abundant energy and self=confidence I thought would come with it.
But boy was I was wrong.
Even after accomplishing these objectives, there was no magical self-confident ME, waiting on the other side. In fact, my energy became even more depleted, my world became even darker and my interpersonal relationships suffered greatly as a result of the sacrifices I made to accomplish my goals.
That is until I learned about the dynamics of giving and receiving energy: An energy source that is directly connected to the giving and receiving patterns in our interpersonal relationships.
When I tapped into this abundant energy source, EVERYTHING in my life changed. I expereinced true vitality, confidence and charisma. I was glowing from the inside out and those around me took notice. Most importantly the protective wall I had built within around myself came tumbling down, and I was able to show up fully present in the world; giving and receiving with ease while becoming a magnet to people and opportunities.
* No more giving to receive.
* No more pushing to connect with others.
* No more being held back by outer circumstances
* No more blaming others for my lack of self-worth or confidence.
* No more sacrificing my values or myself to reach my personal and professional goals.
All that stopped, the moment I saw why the situations in my life were happening FOR ME.
Recognizing how positive and transformative these giving and receiving concepts were in my own life, I started sharing this empowering information with other women, and Ignite the Light was born. It is now my passion and mission to help women around the world tap into this abundant energy source within themselves, to live the life they desire and BE their personal and professional BEST!