For most of my life, I struggled with my interpersonal relationships. Why? Because I didn't know myself. This led to:
*Missed opportunites.
*Staying too long in unhealthy relationships.
*Playing down my strengths, in order to make others feel comfortable.
*Not being present due to body/mind triggers.
*avoiding conflict.
*Physical body ailments.
Keeping me from fully expressing myself and stepping into a place of leadership.
By playing small, I experienced one painful life experience after another.
If only they changed, if I was in a better relationship, had a better job, made more money, had a better body...THEN I would have the self-confidence and the leadership opportunities I thought would come with it.
But boy was I was wrong.
Even after accomplishing these objectives, there was no magical self-confident ME, waiting on the other side. In fact, as a result of the sacrifices I made to accomplish the goals, my energy was even more depleted, my body and my interpersonal relationships suffered greatly.
That is until I learned about the dynamics of giving and receiving energy: An energy source that is directly connected to the giving and receiving patterns in relationships.
By applying this knowledge, my life changed. I expereinced true charisma, confidence and creativity. I was glowing from the inside out and those around me took notice. Most importantly the protective wall I had built around myself came tumbling down, and I was able to show up fully present in the world; giving and receiving with ease while becoming a magnet to people and opportunities.
* No more giving to receive.
* No more pushing to connect with others.
* No more being held back by body/mind triggers.
* No more blaming outside circumstances for my lack of self-worth or confidence.
* No more sacrificing my values or my presence to reach my personal and professional goals.
All that stopped, the moment I saw why the relationships in my life were showing up...FOR ME.
Recognizing how positive and transformative these giving and receiving concepts were in my own life, I started sharing this empowering information with other women, and Ignite the Light was born. It is now my passion and mission to help women around the world improve their interpersonal relationships, to BE their personal and professional BEST!